New Words counteract 美vt. 抵消；中和；阻碍

speed up 加速；使加速

 perspective美 n. 观点；远景；透视图

rail 美 [rel] vi. 抱怨；责骂

 

01 Understand And Counteract Your Triggers

理解并消除（不耐心）的起因

 

 Impatience is something which is triggered. This trigger is different for everybody but it has the same purpose. To become more patient try to ``understand`` what your trigger is. Once you understand what your trigger is you can work on counteracting it by doing calming exercises or techniques whenever you feel the trigger building up

不耐烦是有诱因。而诱因对每个人来说都不同，但目的相同（都是让你变得不耐烦）。要变得更耐心，试着“理解”你的“诱因”是什么。 一旦你明白了诱因，每当你感到就要不耐烦时，就可以通过做静思或是其他手段消除它。

 

 02 Build Self-Confidence 建立自信

 

Impatience usually appears when one feels down, when you don't feel in control or perhaps feel that your hands are tied. A person with a high level of confidence will accept the situation as it is; they will not fight it or rail against it. Rather, they will work with it.

一个人感到沮丧，失控或是受到束缚的时候就会不耐烦。而一个有高度自信的人会接受现状，不会和这种现状抗争。相反，他们会想办法解决这种困境。

 

03 Put On Your “Positive”

Glasses 戴上你的“正能量”眼镜

 Patience is all about perspective and how you look at situations.

耐心其实就是你要通过怎样的角度去看待事物。

 

 For example if you miss your bus don`t focus on the negatives but emphasize the positive things such as you`ll get exercise from walking or that you can enjoy the fresh air. So try to put a positive spin on everything you do; you will find that you will not just reduce tension but you`ll become a much happier person.

比如，如果你错过了公共汽车，不要把注意力放在负面影响上上，而要强调积极的方面，比如步行时锻炼身体，可以享受新鲜空气。所以，试着对你所做的每件事都抱着积极的态度，你会发现你就不会那么紧张，而且你会成为一个更快乐的人。